torquing that goes on is inappropriate for boys and girls of her age. >> 20-year-old guys could be licking chocolate sauce, or whipped cream off of 13-year- old girls, because they encourage that. they're like bring it, so we can see what kind of game you have. >> reporter: it's friday night, and the latest torquing party is supposed to be going on behind this door in oakland. but just hours ago, the word went out on social media. someone tipped off police, so they canceled the event. one of the promoters of the event wrote, sorry people, someone told the cops, so there will be no party tonight. yet, new parties were already in the works, including this one, which popped up the very next day. ♪ [ music ] while there's nothing illegal about the dancing itself, police say parties such as these are often set up without permits. we reached out to a promoter without comment, but have not received a response. this girl and her mother insist, knowing the difference between right and wrong goes beyond the letter of the law.